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Matthews v. Matthews

Court of Appeals of Arkansas, Division II

November 14, 2018

TIFFANY MATTHEWS APPELLANT
v.
JEFFREY MATTHEWS APPELLEE

          APPEAL FROM THE FAULKNER COUNTY CIRCUIT COURT [NO. 23DR-14-1196] HONORABLE H.G. FOSTER, JUDGE

          Chad M. Green, for appellant.

          Beau Wilcox; and Brian G. Brooks, Attorney at Law, PLLC, by: Brian G. Brooks, for appellee.

          DAVID M. GLOVER, JUDGE.

         Tiffany Matthews appeals from the trial court's December 6, 2017 order denying her motion for change of custody. She and Jeffrey Matthews were divorced by decree entered on April 14, 2015. They have three children together, ranging in age from thirteen to nine. The parties agreed, and the divorce decree provided, that they would share joint custody of the children. Tiffany's motion to change custody alleged that communications between the two had deteriorated to the point they could no longer share custody. After considering testimony of the four adults and the oldest of the children, the trial court disagreed. We affirm.

         At the hearing, Tiffany testified that she and Jeffrey communicated freely and openly in the beginning, but that now they communicate only through e-mail. She explained the communication breakdown began about two years earlier when Jeffrey got a new girlfriend, Candy Ward. Tiffany testified that at first, Jeffrey asked her to communicate through Candy, but they now communicate about the children through e-mail. Tiffany read aloud an April 2015 e-mail from her to Jeffrey about an incident when one of the children was sick. She said Jeffrey e-mailed her back, stating, "This is not an emergency. Leave me alone and stop emailing me." She explained Jeffrey's position was that unless there was a medical emergency, he wanted her to leave him alone. She described his parenting preference for "parallel parenting," a very "walled-off" thing. She described several instances when the children had left personal items at Jeffrey's house, and she said it caused stress for the children because she could not contact Jeffrey to retrieve the items. She testified the children told her recently Jeffrey did not want items from his house to go to Tiffany's, and vice versa. She said Jeffrey changed his phone number and then told her to contact Candy if she needed him; Candy's phone number was the number provided to her.

         Tiffany described an incident where Candy physically attacked her in August 2016 in front of the children after a volleyball game. She explained she was trying to give Jeffrey a check for money she owed him regarding the children; Candy got out of Jeffrey's vehicle, snatched the check, and shoved her to the ground; her chest was bruised as a result; and Candy entered a plea to misdemeanor assault. According to Tiffany, Candy told her to leave the children alone when they were with Jeffrey and she (Candy) would be the one responding to Tiffany's e-mails.

         Tiffany disclosed that she married her wife, Tiffany Bonds, in February 2016 and that Bonds has good interaction with the children and helps them with school work. She also said the deterioration of communication between her and Jeffrey had negatively affected the children. She believed she should have primary custody, and Jeffrey should be involved in their lives and have plenty of visitation. Tiffany acknowledged the children were doing well in school. She said, however, the kids had told her it was not an option for them to call her while they were with Jeffrey; one child told her she fears how Jeffrey will react if she shows affection to Tiffany at games when they are with him.

         MGM (the parties' 13-year-old daughter) testified in camera. She said she has a very good relationship with her mother and also with Tiffany Bonds; both of them help her with schoolwork; and her mom attends a lot of her games. She stated her sister EM is eleven and her brother BM is nine. She testified her relationship with Jeffrey has gotten better over the years; she said she sees Candy every day she is with her dad. MGM explained Candy lives just a few houses down from Jeffrey; Candy and Jeffrey have a lot of arguments over little things and parenting because Candy has one kid; the arguments happen daily and get worse on Thursday nights. According to MGM, she was present when her mom and Candy had the altercation after the game; she started crying when Candy pushed her mom; the school principal and an officer came over; two other officers were called; her siblings were upset; and she was scared. MGM described her own relationship with Candy as a "competition"; they are both hard headed; she has lots of arguments with Candy; EM and Candy have a really good relationship; and her dad does not allow her to call her mom when she is with him. She described the environment at Jeffrey's house as more tense than at her mom's.

         On cross-examination, MGM denied her mom earlier told her to keep the marriage to Bonds a secret. She said she mostly gets along with her dad; EM sometimes argues with her dad; and BM does not really argue with him. She stated she did not want to go to counseling but her dad told her she had to go; the counselor was the same one Candy and her son use. She said her dad and Candy argue in front of them and slam doors; she has never seen her mom and Bonds argue; no incident like the one involving the check has happened again; pick-ups and drop-offs work fine; and she has not seen her mom and dad have any interaction in the last few months. On various topics, she stated that EM had cried after arguments between her dad and Candy; most of it went over BM's head; her mom's house was a calmer environment; and she thought it would be better for all of them to spend more time with their mom. She also said her dad had allowed Candy to spank BM.

         Tiffany Bonds testified she is general manager at Chick-fil-A and has worked there over nine years; she has a business degree from UCA. She was present when Candy attacked Tiffany Matthews. She also described Jeffrey as being angry frequently.

         Candy testified she has been dating Jeffrey a couple of years. She described an incident when Tiffany took the kids to Jeffrey's house after a game without telling him and would not leave until Jeffrey talked to her; Tiffany apologized the next day. Candy said that event changed the way Jeffrey approached Tiffany from that point forward; they all four (Candy, Jeffrey, Tiffany Matthews, and Tiffany Bonds) started group texting. Candy also gave her version of the altercation with Tiffany after the game and acknowledged pushing Tiffany down. She said she has a good relationship with the children; only the relationship with MGM is strained. She agreed Jeffrey instructed her to be the one to deal with Tiffany. Her own divorce was final "this month."

         Jeffrey testified he told Tiffany not to e-mail him every time the kids were not feeling well; he could communicate with them to find out how they felt; they were both capable parents and could care for the children; and he did not believe he was entirely at fault for the deterioration of their communications. He said he felt it was important to be protective of his relationship with Candy and if that meant communication with his ex-wife, the mother of his children, needed to change, it was the right thing to do. He acknowledged the turning point was when Tiffany took the kids to his house to give BM a bath. He said he was not opposed to a different type of communication, and he blocked Tiffany's number out of frustration because of so many texts; it was disrupting his time with his kids. He wanted to avoid face-to-face encounters with Tiffany because the tensions had been high. He gave his version of the incident between Candy and Tiffany. He said he did not think a change in custody would solve the communications problem, and communications had not improved since a year ago. He emphasized the communications issues were not exclusively his fault. He acknowledged he directed all communications with Tiffany were to go through Candy.

         Jeffrey testified he was not under an obligation to co-parent or take co-parenting courses; co-parenting was not discussed prior to the decree and the decree did not include it. He described "parallel parenting" as "when you have two parents in a joint custody situation where they love their children, but the idea of being 'friendly' and showing up at each other's house isn't something that is able to be done." He described the incidents involving the children forgetting their personal items and being unable to retrieve them from his house and his discipline of BM by not allowing him to play ball; he acknowledged not letting the children contact Tiffany when they were with him. He said he wants the communication to be in a controlled environment with respect to each of their new relationships. He stated he wanted to keep joint custody but was open to modification about ways to facilitate better communication. Jeffrey acknowledged Tiffany was justified in assuming she ...


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